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Wednesday, March 30

The One with the Lists

We haven't talked about it in awhile, Mon. Do you want to share your freebie list? I'd be interested to hear who's on it now. Mine, of course, is Troy Aikman, Tony Parker, Mike Modano, Ben Affleck and Matt LeBlanc. Anyone else care to share?

Monday, March 28

Quick Hits

Just a few thoughts from my weekend:

I lost my new tournament love, West Virginia, this weekend to an overtime comeback win by Louisville. Just as with the next date after a breakup, I don't really care that they're gone. I'll just turn to my friend Chris Borniger's mantra: ABR (Anyone but Roy) when watching the Final Four this weekend. The good news is that I'll be enjoying the Final Four in the friendly confines of Lawrence with Borniger and several other friends, including my three best girlfriends. I can't wait to drink at the Red Lyon, eat at La Familia and spend time on Mass St. It's always nice to see your best friends, especially when you live thousands of miles away from them.

I had another heartbreak this weekend when I realized (Spurs point guard) Tony Parker is dating some actress from Desperate Housewives. I know he couldn't wait on me forever, but he's such a cutie. I'm a little sad to hear he's dating some actress instead of a cute, normal girl. Just another athlete. But I still love him.

I'm off today for Caesar Chavez Day, and Robby started his new job!! I can't wait until he gets home so I can hear all about it. I even bought him a cute present, although it didn't turn out as well as I had hoped. Sigh.

Muggsy is behaving like a model citizen the last three days. He's been coming when called and has been acting extremely docile. He's not even barking at everyone that walks by anymore. I caught him napping outside instead, which is a huge breakthrough. (For those of you who don't know, Muggsy is fear aggressive and is very stressed by his life.) In our first attempt at muzzle training, I got the muzzle all the way on and fastened in the first try!! Of course, it was dripping with peanut butter, but I still consider it a success.

Guess that's it. Hope all of the rest of you have a wonderful Caesar Chavez Day!

The Alpha Dog

I read an interesting article this weekend about dog aggression that I thought I might pass along to other dog owners. Of course, if your dog has no signs of aggression, you don't need to worry about this, but as I am trying to manage my own dog's case of aggression, I find these articles interesting.

A group of behaviorists spent several years studying a colony of wild dogs in an environment created to simulate their natural habitat. Many of the things they discovered have advanced dog training, such as this article I read. In the wild, the alpha dog is not aggressive. The rules are set and dogs are actually very peaceful. The alpha dog has nothing to prove. He doesn't fight with the other dogs and remains very distant from the rest of the pack. It's the beta dogs that get aggressive because they are challenging each other for their status below the alpha dog (which explains why Muggsy began getting more aggressive with Chubbs and Fenway when I began changing the pack structure with his treatment program). Dogs only act out when the leadership is inconsistent (which I will explain in a minute).

The article went on to say that the reason dogs seem to love the male of the household so much even though it was the female of the house who wanted the dog is because the male is more distant from the dog. While the female dotes on the dog, the male pays attention to him only when he wants to, which is exactly what the alpha dog would do in the wild.

Of course, this theory doesn't apply to all dog households because many dogs are well-adjusted and have no fear or aggression issues from their pasts. They simply aren't prone to that. And dogs will choose which parent they love the most based on many reasons, like which one saved him from the shelter. But if you're having aggression issues with your dog, it says to never pet your dog when they approach you for love. That's the dog's way of saying, "Hey, human, I'm standing here. Do your job and pet me." What we have to teach them is that they aren't in charge. We play with them and show them affection on our terms, not theirs. When we tell our dog to sit and expect them to listen, we're saying we're in charge. When we pet them because they tell us to, we're telling them they're in charge. For a dog with a tendency for aggression, this is sending them a very inconsistent message and they will act out in confusion or in an effort to establish their rank in the pack.

Since I'm already working with Muggsy on aggression, what I'm going to do is try the Nothing in Life is Free program that is so common in training. My dogs won't get free attention for awhile and will have to come when called to me and sit nicely in front of me for attention and playtime. I'll let you know if it works!

My Dogs

My dogs crack me up. I have a basset hound, Melody Magpie is her official, AKC-certified name, but you can call her Maggie ... or Fat Girl. And then there's our little mutt, Theo. They each have their own distinct personality.

Maggie is obviously the injured only child, meaning she had us all to herself until these other two creatures came along. She has always been so good about our two-year-old son. You can tell she's not his biggest fan, but she doesn't act hateful towards him and is very patient when he wants to sit on her, etc. Hey, he does provide some excellent table scraps, so it's a give and take relationship. She's getting bossier and more insistent as she grows up. I guess she feels she has that right, since she's put up with this kid.

Then there's Theo. When we first got Theo he would lick us all over whenever he had the chance. He's starting to settle down and get used to the fact that he belongs to us. You can tell he's rather live outdoors though. At night, he sleeps right next to the front door. And unlike Maggie, he never asks to come in. He'd rather stay outside, huntin' squirrels.
Recently, a beagle and a cat have been added to our corner of the woods. They've calmed down about the dog, but they will not stop barking at that cat. I think it lays where they can see it to taunt them. I left them outside today since it's nice. The neighbors should enjoy the constant hound dog woof that Maggie will keep up all day! Well, you shouldn't have got a cat! What'd you expect?

That's your introduction to the dogs who rule my household. I'm sure there will be many more stories! (I have a real good/bad one about Theo ... but I'll save it for a rainy day!)

Thursday, March 24

My New Love

Every year, I look forward to March. I don't get that excited about Christmas or other holidays, but I love March Madness. It's my Christmas, birthday and whatever else you celebrate all wrapped into one. But when my team, Kansas, loses early, I find myself wondering what to do. It happened this year when they were upset in the first round by Bucknell. I could barely watch basketball. I had no one to cheer for -- very depressing.

Then I discovered West Virginia. Watching them upset Wake Forest in double overtime renewed my holiday spirit (and I saw my long-lost friend Mike Vest on TV!!). How could you not love a team with a player named Pittsnogle! And Mike Gansey -- what a clutch player. 29 points, 19 in the overtimes. They have a guy named Clarence Sally and another one with a great, long last name.

Amanda and I compared it to your first date after getting out of a bad relationship. When you first get out of a relationship, you feel like something's missing. You don't have anyone to spend your lazy evenings with, no one to call when you hear something funny, etc. But finally, you're ready to date again and you have that great first date that makes you feel giddy and excited again. West Virginia is our first date.

Most people don't understand our love of basketball. We're obsessive and weird about it, we know. Amanda and I can laugh for hours about the time that Doug Gottleib played at Kansas with his shorts on backward and the entire crowd starting chanting "Shorts on backward" until Eddie Sutton called a timeout and the team huddled around him while he changed or about the time Arthur Johnson rejected himself on the rim and landed on his ass. But no one else thinks we're funny. We also take it pretty hard when they lose, especially in the tournament.

That's why Mon and I had to make our own site -- not many people "get" us. I'm just glad I found a couple of girls who do!!

I'm Rachel

I'm not on the profile, but I'm the best friend. I lived with Kelvie for two years in college, and while I didn't come from a rich family and run out on my wedding, I was the messy one. I'm now dating a Jewish guy who is "my lobster." I think the comparisons end there. I know nothing about fashion and hate shopping. I prefer a good basketball game anyday. I worked as a sports reporter for seven years (counting college) and now I work in public relations.

I'm also a dog trainer, so you'll be reading about dogs in this blog a lot. I have three of my own, an Akita mix Muggsy, a Rottweiler mix Chubbs and a Chiuahua mix Fenway. If the small dog seems inconsistent, that's because she belongs to my boyfriend. I love them like most people love their children. I think that makes me weird.

I live in Southern California, having moved here about eight months ago from Texas. I have lots to say, most of it that no one will find interesting but Kelvie and I. So let the blogging begin.

Virgin Blogger

This is my very first blog EVER. I'm a virgin blogger. I haven't been a virgin in awhile, so that's exciting. Not much to say, just wanted to get this bad boy started! Happy Easter!